Made to materials was, becoming material is.
Maybe power, fortune, and fame feed them their shamelessness. Though, it's never different of the opposite gender.
It's the responsibility of the people with conscience to shake them out of their 'teddy bear time bomb'. Lovely looking yet destructive character.
But this isn't what i want to talk about. The message I want to channel is that females should be treated as how they actually deserve.
Some may label women as inferior to themselves, then, they should go for soul counselling. Don't take people for granted. Women should be treated with utter respect like they deserve. They should have such rights that they deserve. If they are the ones that put their hearts to such effort to achieve something, then, give it to them. Why give it to others that don't deserve? Allah gave them hearts and minds and souls, then they should be treated like they have it.
Women are delicate, and they love beauty and fond of softness. Treat them with such manners. Talk to them delicately, with full of softness as they like it. But don't go overboard. They are also often expressive, be the ears that listens to their heart cries.
Women, mostly, don't like violence. Don't treat them with violence. It's bad. Rather, they like to fell caressed and to be understood (so as everyone else). Ever wonder why in wars, most of the soldiers are men and not women? Although, some women put up arms too, but mostly, they needed to be protected from harm. And men need to be their protector, without harming the women themselves.
In marriages, I'd say, the husband needs to be romantic and super understanding of the physical and emotional needs of his wife. Come on, there's no harm in doing so. If you don't, then what makes you marry someone in the first place? To run away from sins? Lol....torturing your wife, emotionally, is also a sin, or at least, it's immoral. Maybe, sometimes, go out for a stroll in the morning or make dinner for her is splendid enough. And never to forget that women marry men with hope that he may bring closer them closer to Allah.
As a friend, to a girl, from a guy's perspective, treat them with full attention. They're always muscular guys, macho and rich dudes all around that might get them ga-ga all over. But, I know, truly, they need a guy friend that understand them in all manners. Even though they might be better than yourself in some aspects, hey, does that matter much?
As a brother, treat them like the coolio bro that they always wanted. The one that would want them to drive them to hangouts or what not. The brother that will always remind them to be a solehah. A brother that would be that photographer when they win sport competition and such. And the best of all, to be a super duper good friend with her husband, when she has one. Even if they kahwin lari.....hahahha
Every female, I'd say, have that little girl inside them that will always deem to be a little princess. It's just nature. Allah made that, insyallah, they have something to be excited about. Some vision that entertains them.
But not to say we should treat women until we sail them to the open sea and spoil them. No! Everything has it's limits. Just look back to Al-Quran and Al-Hadith. Who knows better that Allah Al-Alim? The engineer knows his inventions the best. In Surah An-Nisa', it has said in the 5th verse:
This ayat had made me think a lot. Even made me cry thinking about the perfectness of Al-Quran. Even the Quran mentioned how to treat women.
Hahhaha.....don't worry guys. I'm not leaving your needs out. Even guys have our needs. Sometimes, even The Hulk have his soft spot. Tenderness, we all need it.
But men, I know, that most of us, we can live without thinking of what other people would do to us. We have strong hearts that bear almost anything (some), so use it for the benefit of everyone else by being strong for the important people around us.
Thank you for reading, please leave your comments....and please be polite too (because some don't)
It's the responsibility of the people with conscience to shake them out of their 'teddy bear time bomb'. Lovely looking yet destructive character.
But this isn't what i want to talk about. The message I want to channel is that females should be treated as how they actually deserve.
Some may label women as inferior to themselves, then, they should go for soul counselling. Don't take people for granted. Women should be treated with utter respect like they deserve. They should have such rights that they deserve. If they are the ones that put their hearts to such effort to achieve something, then, give it to them. Why give it to others that don't deserve? Allah gave them hearts and minds and souls, then they should be treated like they have it.
Women are delicate, and they love beauty and fond of softness. Treat them with such manners. Talk to them delicately, with full of softness as they like it. But don't go overboard. They are also often expressive, be the ears that listens to their heart cries.
Women, mostly, don't like violence. Don't treat them with violence. It's bad. Rather, they like to fell caressed and to be understood (so as everyone else). Ever wonder why in wars, most of the soldiers are men and not women? Although, some women put up arms too, but mostly, they needed to be protected from harm. And men need to be their protector, without harming the women themselves.
In marriages, I'd say, the husband needs to be romantic and super understanding of the physical and emotional needs of his wife. Come on, there's no harm in doing so. If you don't, then what makes you marry someone in the first place? To run away from sins? Lol....torturing your wife, emotionally, is also a sin, or at least, it's immoral. Maybe, sometimes, go out for a stroll in the morning or make dinner for her is splendid enough. And never to forget that women marry men with hope that he may bring closer them closer to Allah.
As a friend, to a girl, from a guy's perspective, treat them with full attention. They're always muscular guys, macho and rich dudes all around that might get them ga-ga all over. But, I know, truly, they need a guy friend that understand them in all manners. Even though they might be better than yourself in some aspects, hey, does that matter much?
As a brother, treat them like the coolio bro that they always wanted. The one that would want them to drive them to hangouts or what not. The brother that will always remind them to be a solehah. A brother that would be that photographer when they win sport competition and such. And the best of all, to be a super duper good friend with her husband, when she has one. Even if they kahwin lari.....hahahha
Every female, I'd say, have that little girl inside them that will always deem to be a little princess. It's just nature. Allah made that, insyallah, they have something to be excited about. Some vision that entertains them.
But not to say we should treat women until we sail them to the open sea and spoil them. No! Everything has it's limits. Just look back to Al-Quran and Al-Hadith. Who knows better that Allah Al-Alim? The engineer knows his inventions the best. In Surah An-Nisa', it has said in the 5th verse:
"And give not unto the foolish your property which Allah has made a means of support for you , but feed and clothe them therewith, and speak to them words of kindness and justice."
This ayat had made me think a lot. Even made me cry thinking about the perfectness of Al-Quran. Even the Quran mentioned how to treat women.
Hahhaha.....don't worry guys. I'm not leaving your needs out. Even guys have our needs. Sometimes, even The Hulk have his soft spot. Tenderness, we all need it.
But men, I know, that most of us, we can live without thinking of what other people would do to us. We have strong hearts that bear almost anything (some), so use it for the benefit of everyone else by being strong for the important people around us.
Thank you for reading, please leave your comments....and please be polite too (because some don't)
This is awfully long...yet very sweet :)
ReplyDeleteYour reference to the Quran made it even sweeter Subhanallah. May you become a wonderful husband to your future wife and be true to your words.
Subhanallah.
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