Nisa'

It seems women, females, have become more materialized these days. I just can't seem to imagine that one day, my sister, or my friend to be on a billboard in KL, making a provoking pose. But, when i do see a women's figure on a billboard or some ads in the net, I see something on her face, something depicting that she's willing to do so, to be so. 

Made to materials was, becoming material is. 

Maybe power, fortune, and fame feed them their shamelessness. Though, it's never different of the opposite gender.


It's the responsibility of the people with conscience to shake them out of their 'teddy bear time bomb'. Lovely looking yet destructive character.


But this isn't what i want to talk about. The message I want to channel is that females should be treated as how they actually deserve.


Some may label women as inferior to themselves, then, they should go for soul counselling. Don't take people for granted. Women should be treated with utter respect like they deserve. They should have such rights that they deserve. If they are the ones that put their hearts to such effort to achieve something, then, give it to them. Why give it to others that don't deserve? Allah gave them hearts and minds and souls, then they should be treated like they have it.


Women are delicate, and they love beauty and fond of softness. Treat them with such manners. Talk to them delicately, with full of softness as they like it. But don't go overboard. They are also often expressive, be the ears that listens to their heart cries.


Women, mostly, don't like violence. Don't treat them with violence. It's bad. Rather, they like to fell caressed and to be understood (so as everyone else). Ever wonder why in wars, most of the soldiers are men and not women? Although, some women put up arms too, but mostly, they needed to be protected from harm. And men need to be their protector, without harming the women themselves.


In marriages, I'd say, the husband needs to be romantic and super understanding of the physical and emotional needs of his wife. Come on, there's no harm in doing so. If you don't, then what makes you marry someone in the first place? To run away from sins? Lol....torturing your wife, emotionally, is also a sin, or at least, it's immoral. Maybe, sometimes, go out for a stroll in the morning or make dinner for her is splendid enough. And never to forget that women marry men with hope that he may bring closer them closer to Allah.


As a friend, to a girl, from a guy's perspective, treat them with full attention. They're always muscular guys, macho and rich dudes all around that might get them ga-ga all over. But, I know, truly, they need a guy friend that understand them in all manners. Even though they might be better than yourself in some aspects, hey, does that matter much?


As a brother, treat them like the coolio bro that they always wanted. The one that would want them to drive them to hangouts or what not. The brother that will always remind them to be a solehah. A brother that would be that photographer when they win sport competition and such. And the best of all, to be a super duper good friend with her husband, when she has one. Even if they kahwin lari.....hahahha

Every female, I'd say, have that little girl inside them that will always deem to be a little princess. It's just nature. Allah made that, insyallah, they have something to be excited about. Some vision that entertains them.


But not to say we should treat women until we sail them to the open sea and spoil them. No! Everything has it's limits. Just look back to Al-Quran and Al-Hadith. Who knows better that Allah Al-Alim? The engineer knows his inventions the best. In Surah An-Nisa', it has said in the 5th verse:

 "And give not unto the foolish your property which Allah has made a means of support for you , but feed and clothe them therewith, and speak to them words of kindness and justice."

This ayat had made me think a lot. Even made me cry thinking about the perfectness of Al-Quran. Even the Quran mentioned how to treat women.


Hahhaha.....don't worry guys. I'm not leaving your needs out. Even guys have our needs. Sometimes, even The Hulk have his soft spot. Tenderness, we all need it.


But men, I know, that most of us, we can live without thinking of what other people would do to us. We have strong hearts that bear almost anything (some), so use it for the benefit of everyone else by being strong for the important people around us.


Thank you for reading, please leave your comments....and please be polite too (because some don't)

Dzikir Harian

* sekurang2nya 1000 kali sehari

Jumaat

يا ا لله
(Ya Allah)
Allah akan beri ketenangan hati kepada orang yang membacanya

Sabtu

لا ا له ا لا ا لله
(Tiada tuhan melainkan Allah)
Setiap kali membacanya, Allah akan hampir kepada kita dan Allah akan memberi segala kebaikan kepada kita

Ahad

يا حي يا قيو م
(Ya Allah yang sentiasa hidup dan kekal)
Memperolehi harta yang banyak dan membawa berkat serta dicintai oleh setiap manusia

Isnin

لا حو ل و لا قو ة ا لا با لله العلي العظيم
(Tiada daya dan upaya kecuali dengan kuasa Allah yang Maha Besar)
Setiap bacaan, Allah akan beri pahala sebesar Bukit Uhud dan menghindarkan sifat masuklah dalam diri kita

Selasa

اللهم صل علي عبد ك ورسولك و نبيك الا مين و علي اله و صحبه و سلم
(Ya Allah ya tuhan kami, selawatlah ke atas hamba-Mu, rasul-Mu, nabi-Mu yang amanah dan ke atas keluarga serta sahabat-sahabatnya)
Setiap satu kali bacaan, Allah akan mengampunkan dosa kita selama setahun

Rabu

استغفر الله العظيم
(Aku memohon ampun kepada Allah yang Maha Besar)
Setiap satu kali bacaan, Allah akan menghilangkan satu titik hitam di dalam hati

Khamis

سبحا ن الله العظيم سبحا ن الله و بحمده
(Maha Suci Allah yang Maha Agung, Maha Suci Allah dengan segala pujian)
Setiap bacaan, Allah akan mengampunkan dosa kita sebanyak buih di lautan dan Allah akan menghidupkan satu pohon buat kita di syurga

Burning ore to metal

I wrote this in 2011's August.

What I think...

I think we need a revolution. The younger generation of Malaysia is accelerating themselves towards future destruction of themselves and those all around.

Being pulled by their hearts, they render themselves with the unimportant issues and matters in life. What I'm talking about is my generation. My young community are demolishing their importance with their 'lust' and affection for entertainment. Either it's k-pop, movies, raps, fashion, all of this is becoming the culture of the world in 10 years time.

Where have all the spirit of embracing knowledge and pioneering adventures and success gone to?

We have heard stories of students becoming successful entrepreneurs, students found their passion in things that could help Malaysians or the world. But how many are there of those like them? What would the results be if we compare to others that become loyal slaves to entertainment?

One's mind develops from time to time. But a mediocre maturity is not enough. They need an environment that contribute as a catalyst to such growth. And they need to make their thinking more critical and put all the positive attitudes together and keep it in their hearts.

What these people lose is the hardship in achieving something. Usually, what they want is already there. Although this is good but how much would do the opportunity do good?

These youngsters may take such a shining chance to be star as for granted. They think they should have them and they deserve them and could do anything they want to as if the world is theirs.

Let's look at the past. The devastative war laid upon South Korea brought mischief and difficult lives for the Korean families. As for Philippines, they were poured with aid and luxury by the USA. Happy for everyone.

50 years forward. The South Korea end up in the first worlds while the Philippines had to sacrifice their dreams to live in the present day. At least mostly are like so.

But what about Malaysia? Malaysia is a mystery. Or maybe it's a riddle for someone to realize what happened. Malaysia went to war with the Communists and British and 13 May Tragedy but what have Malaysians learn? "Wars is not good. We need to bring our country to its feet." And so as what the generations of Tunku Abdul Rahman until the generations of Tun Dr. Mahathir Mohamad did. But what happens now?